Get people to listen to you

1. Make sure you have the attention of your audience before speaking. If you are speaking to a large group, say something like "excuse me," or "I have something I would like to say." If the conversation is one-on-one, make sure the other person has finished their statement before you begin to speak.
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   Choose your words carefully. Present your thoughts in a tactful manner.
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   Speak clearly. Don't mumble or race through your sentences.
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   Make sure the tone of your voice is appropriate for the topic of discussion.
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   Make sure the volume of your voice is appropriate for the size of your audience.
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   Listen well to others. Ask questions or make statements using their name, showing interest in what they say. Talk about them to build their confidence and they will gradually gain more interest in you.